So you went to school, dear man! (3,3)
I believe the answer is:
old boy
'man' is the definition.
(I know that old boy is a type of man)
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for old boy that I've seen before include "I say, it's a former school chum" , "Alumnus (with network)" , "Former member of a school" , "Male former pupil" , "Male ex-pupil" .)