Soldier who keeps himself to himself? (7)
I believe the answer is:
private
'soldier' is the definition.
(private is a type of soldier)
I don't understand the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for private that I've seen before include "Lowest rank in the army" , "Secret, not public" , "retiring" , "Lowest rank of enlisted person" , "Unofficial; military rank" .)