Sounds like an instruction to find that woman, the kind that's ambitious (2-6)
I believe the answer is:
go-getter
'find that woman the kind that's ambitious' is the definition.
Although both the answer and definition are singular nouns, I don't understand how they can define each other.
I don't understand the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for go-getter that I've seen before include "Person who is successful through aggression and energy" , "Person who is successful by being aggressive and energetic" , "Energetic and successful person - like retriever" , "Enterprising person" , "Someone whose career progresses rapidly" .)