Sounds like Dad means to be more distant (7)
I believe the answer is:
farther
'more distant' is the definition.
(more far away)
I don't understand the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for farther that I've seen before include "Beyond; her raft (anag)" , "More distant" , "longer" , "Over a greater distance" .)