Stand having to share the same home as? (3,2,4)
I believe the answer is:
put up with
'stand' is the definition.
(synonyms)
'having to share the same home as?' is the wordplay.
I cannot really understand how this works, but
'having' could be 'with' (I've seen this before) and 'with' is found within the answer.
'the' could be 't' (the is pronounced as a 't' sound in some dialects) and 't' is present in the answer.
This may be the basis of the clue (or it may be nonsense).
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for put up with that I've seen before include "humour" , "Bear" , "Tolerate - endure" .)