That time of life when you hearten mother? (5)
I believe the answer is:
youth
'that time of life' is the definition.
(youth is a kind of time of life)
'you hearten mother?' is the wordplay.
'hearten mother?' becomes 'th' (I can't explain this - if you can you should give a lot more credence to this answer).
'you'+'th'='YOUTH'
'when' acts as a link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for youth that I've seen before include "Young person" , "7" , "Juvenile" , "Inexperience" , "Immaturity" .)