The ex is no longer in her prime (3)
I believe the answer is:
old
'prime' is the definition.
The definition and answer can be both related to time as well as being singular nouns.
Perhaps they are linked in a way I don't understand?
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for old that I've seen before include "out of the ark" , "Senescent" , "Obsolete" , "Long-lived" , "Wild clematis" .)