The Queen and her son-in-law rolling a joint (5)
I believe the answer is:
mitre
'a joint' is the definition.
(mitre joint is a kind of joint)
I don't understand how the remainder of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for mitre that I've seen before include "that goes over a cleric's head?" , "Sort of joint" , "A bishop wears it" , "See boss gear up" , "Merit (anag.)" .)