The thing you don't want to be left in (5)
I believe the answer is:
lurch
'the thing' is the definition.
The answer and definition can be both acts as well as being singular nouns.
Maybe there's an association between them I don't understand?
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for lurch that I've seen before include "Pitch to one side" , "Abrupt uncontrolled movement - something not to be left in?" , "Faltering movement" , "Stagger; (leave in ) difficulties" , "Totter" .)