Third cousin perhaps aloof corresponding (7,8)
I believe the answer is:
distant relative
'third cousin' is the definition.
I don't know anything about this answer so I cannot judge whether it can be defined by this definition.
'aloof corresponding' is the wordplay.
'aloof' becomes 'distant' (synonyms).
'corresponding' becomes 'relative' (I've seen this before).
'distant'+'relative'='DISTANT RELATIVE'
'perhaps' acts as a link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Another definition for distant relative that I've seen is " Family member".)