This may be over the pecking order (9)
I believe the answer is:
mistletoe
'this may be over the pecking order' is the definition.
The answer and definition can be both plants as well as being singular nouns.
Perhaps they are linked in a way I don't understand?
This is all the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for mistletoe that I've seen before include "Kissed-under plant" , "Stole mite from the Christmas plant" , ""Kissing" sprig" , "Plant used as Christmas decoration" , "Viscum album, much sought-after around Christmas" .)