Though upset about some lies, a poet is not rude (6)
I believe the answer is:
polite
'is not rude' is the definition.
('polite' is the opposite to 'rude')
I cannot understand how the remainder of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for polite that I've seen before include "Well-behaved" , "Civil and good-mannered" , "Respectful and considerate" , "Having good manners, socially correct" , "Good mannered and civil" .)