To pacify, it's offered so softly (3)
I believe the answer is:
sop
'to pacify it's' is the definition.
I can't tell whether this definition defines the answer.
'so softly' is the wordplay.
'softly' becomes 'p' (short for piano, musical term for softly).
'so'+'p'='SOP'
'offered' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for sop that I've seen before include "A concession or bribe, once offered to Cerberus" , "Minor concession" , "Propitiatory gift" , "Appeasing bribe" , "Piece of bread dipped in liquid, or a concession" .)