Tolerate gush about embraces (4,4)
I believe the answer is:
bear hugs
'embraces' is the definition.
The answer and definition can be both acts as well as being plural nouns.
Perhaps you can see an association between them that I don't see?
'tolerate gush about' is the wordplay.
'tolerate' becomes 'bear' (synonyms).
'about' is an anagram indicator.
'gush' is an anagram of 'hugs'.
'bear'+'hugs'='BEAR HUGS'
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for bear hugs that I've seen before include "Huge cuddles" , "Warm embraces as from heavy animals" .)