Tour is ruined by man wanting a hand (6)

I believe the answer is:

suitor

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'man wanting a hand' is the definition.
I can't judge whether this defines the answer.

'tour is ruined' is the wordplay.
'ruined' is an anagram indicator.
'tour'+'is'='touris'
'touris' is an anagram of 'SUITOR'.

'by' acts as a link.

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(Other definitions for suitor that I've seen before include "Wooer" , ". . . he woos his girl" , "Man pursuing a woman for marriage" , "One seeking marriage" , "He pays court to a woman" .)

I've seen this clue in The Irish Independent.

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