Uncle, but not of Romulus (5)
I believe the answer is:
remus
'uncle' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
I cannot understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for remus that I've seen before include "Co-founder of Rome" , "twin brother" , "Suckled by a she-wolf, I was" , "Brother to fifty two across" , "One of the founders of Rome" .)