Understood sensitivity surrounding self-referential letter (5)
I believe the answer is:
tacit
'understood' is the definition.
(I know that understood can be written as tacit)
I can't explain the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for tacit that I've seen before include "Respect, admiration" , "without speaking" , "Wordless" , "Implicit, unspoken" , "Silently understood" .)