Unexciting partner in an impasse (9)
I believe the answer is:
stalemate
'an impasse' is the definition.
('stalemate' can be a synonym of 'impasse')
'unexciting partner' is the wordplay.
'unexciting' becomes 'stale' (I am not sure about this - if you are sure you should believe this answer much more).
'partner' becomes 'mate' ('mate' can be a synonym of 'partner').
'stale'+'mate'='STALEMATE'
'in' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for stalemate that I've seen before include "Possible outcome of chess game" , "situation without a winner" , "Unresolvable position" , "Possible chess game ending" , "Inglorious deadlock" .)