Unstable child, note, joining band (9)
I believe the answer is:
tottering
'unstable' is the definition.
(similar in meaning)
'child note joining band' is the wordplay.
'child' becomes 'tot' (term for a young child).
'note' becomes 'te' (musical note).
'joining band' becomes 'ring' (I can't explain this - if you can you should give a lot more credence to this answer).
'tot'+'te'+'ring'='TOTTERING'
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for tottering that I've seen before include "Moving unsteadily" , "making unsteady progress" , "Wobbly" .)