Urging to abandon knife fighting (5)
I believe the answer is:
vying
'fighting' is the definition.
(vie means to compete or fight)
I don't understand the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for vying that I've seen before include "in contention" , "Struggling" , "Eagerly competing" , "Striving" , "Engaged in rivalry" .)