Was honoured daughter to retire? (2,2,3)

I believe the answer is:

go to bed

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'retire?' is the definition.
('go to bed' can be a synonym of 'retire')

'was honoured daughter to' is the wordplay.
I cannot quite understand how this works, but
'daughter' could be 'd' (genealogical abbreviation) and 'd' is located in the answer.
'to' is found in the answer.
This explanation may well be incorrect...

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(Another definition for go to bed that I've seen is " Retire".)

I've seen this clue in The Times.

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