We personally use lovers badly (9)
I believe the answer is:
ourselves
'we personally' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'use lovers badly' is the wordplay.
'badly' indicates an anagram.
'use'+'lovers'='uselovers'
'uselovers' anagrammed gives 'OURSELVES'.
(Other definitions for ourselves that I've seen before include "See 16" , "Emphatically us" , "Us, reflexively" , "We or us personally" .)