We set out to be like a sixteen year old (5)
I believe the answer is:
sweet
'be like a sixteen year old' is the definition.
I can't tell whether this defines the answer.
'we set out' is the wordplay.
'out' is an insertion indicator.
'we' inserted within 'set' is 'SWEET'.
'to' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for sweet that I've seen before include "Kind" , "Dulcet - dessert" , "Melodious, not bitter" , "Humbug!" , "bon-bon" .)