With her two crying out it's embarrassing (12)
I believe the answer is:
cringeworthy
'embarrassing' is the definition.
(cringeworthy can mean very embarrassing)
'with her two crying out' is the wordplay.
'with' means one lot of letters go next to another.
'out' is an anagram indicator (out can mean wrong or inaccurate).
'her'+'two'='hertwo'
'hertwo'+'crying' is 'hertwocrying'.
'hertwocrying' anagrammed gives 'CRINGEWORTHY'.
'it's' is the link.
(Other definitions for cringeworthy that I've seen before include "Causing embarrassment" , "Severely embarrassing" , "Acutely embarrassing" .)