Woman gets married with energy (3)
I believe the answer is:
vim
'energy' is the definition.
(I know that energy can be written as vim)
'woman gets married' is the wordplay.
'woman' becomes 'Vi' (short for Violet).
'gets' says to put letters next to each other.
'married' becomes 'm' (abbreviation, e.g. in genealogy).
'vi'+'m'='VIM'
'with' acts as a link.
(Other definitions for vim that I've seen before include "Pizazz" , "Pep and vigour" , "Energy and vigour" , "Energy, enthusiasm" , "Pep (informal)" .)