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Words used to threaten family members in Old English (2,4)

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I believe the answer is:

or else

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'words used to threaten family' is the definition.
I can't judge whether this definition defines the answer.

'members in old english' is the wordplay.
'members' becomes 'rels' (I can't explain this - if you can you should give a lot more credence to this answer).
'in' means one lot of letters goes inside another.
'old english' becomes 'oe'.
'rels' inserted into 'oe' is 'OR ELSE'.

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(Other definitions for or else that I've seen before include "Threatening phrase" , "Otherwise - may be threatening" , "Otherwise - that's a threat" , "Vague threat" , "Alternatively" .)

I've seen this clue in The Independent.
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