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Worry when sibling loses his second (6)

Ross

I believe the answer is:

bother

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'worry' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)

'sibling loses his second' is the wordplay.
I cannot quite understand how this works, but
'second' could be 'other' (I've seen this before) and 'other' is present in the answer.
A single letter 'b' remains which might be clued in a way I don't see.
This may be the basis of the clue (or it may be nonsense).

'when' is the link.

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(Other definitions for bother that I've seen before include "Worry, disturb" , "Fuss; oh no!" , "Fuss and nuisance" , "Badger" , "Fuss and irritant" .)

I've seen this clue in the Sydney Morning Herald.
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