"You ____ Your Life" (3)
I believe the answer is:
bet
(Other definitions for bet that I've seen before include "Speculation" , "22 across will accept one" , "'Stake, wager (3)'" , "Wager, speculate" , "Wager, or the sum waged" .)
I believe the answer is:
bet
(Other definitions for bet that I've seen before include "Speculation" , "22 across will accept one" , "'Stake, wager (3)'" , "Wager, speculate" , "Wager, or the sum waged" .)