One is or used to be (4)
I believe the answer is:
were
'used to be' is the definition.
(eg 'you were...' means 'you used to be...')
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for were that I've seen before include "SECOND PART OF 9" , "'Are, in the past (4)'" , "(You/we/they) existed" , "(We/you) existed" , "Used to be" .)