Slightly charming son leaves ego at home (5)
I believe the answer is:
elfin
'slightly charming' is the definition.
'elfin' can be an answer for 'charming' (I've seen this before). I am not sure about the 'slightly' bit.
I cannot understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for elfin that I've seen before include "Mischievous sprite" , "Sweet" , "Delicately framed" , "Like a little fairy" , "Fairy-like" .)