A pointed reminder that you’re late? (4)
I believe the answer is:
spur
'a pointed reminder' is the definition.
The answer and definition can be both related to communication as well as being singular nouns.
Maybe you can see a link between them that I can't see?
I can't explain the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for spur that I've seen before include "footballer?" , "slip road" , "Goad as for a horse" , "This provokes sudden movement!" , "Sharp pointed projection" .)