Affectedness after you call (9)
I believe the answer is:
posturing
'affectedness' is the definition.
The answer and definition can be both human attributes as well as being singular nouns.
Maybe there's an association between them I don't understand?
'after you call' is the wordplay.
'after' becomes 'post' (prefix meaning after, eg post-war).
'you' becomes 'u' (commonly used in online communication).
'call' becomes 'ring' (telephone call).
'post'+'u'+'ring'='POSTURING'
Can you help me to learn more?
(Another definition for posturing that I've seen is " showing off".)