Am in disgrace with the lady (3)

I believe the answer is:

she

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'the lady' is the definition.
('she' refers to a woman)

I don't understand the remainder of the clue.

(Other definitions for she that I've seen before include "1887 Rider Haggard novel" , "- - Loves You (Beatles)" , "fiction" , "The one who must be obeyed" , "Book" .)

I've seen this clue in the Evening Standard.

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