Asks in gent with moving and charming quality (10)

I believe the answer is:

takingness

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'asks in gent with moving' is the definition.
I can't judge whether this defines the answer.

'charming quality' is the wordplay.
'charming' becomes 'taking' (I've seen this before).
'quality' becomes 'ness' (I've seen this in other clues).
'taking'+'ness'='TAKINGNESS'

'and' acts as a link.

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