Blue bonnet in Charlotte's infancy? Far from it (9)
I believe the answer is:
adulthood
'charlotte's infancy? far from it' is the definition.
I can't judge whether this defines the answer.
'blue bonnet' is the wordplay.
'blue' becomes 'adult' (blue can mean pornographic or adult).
'bonnet' becomes 'hood' (synonyms).
'adult'+'hood'='ADULTHOOD'
'in' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for adulthood that I've seen before include "Full maturity" , "Supposedly mature years" , "Time for a majority" , "Grown state" .)