Charming about member (3)
I believe the answer is:
arm
'member' is the definition.
(member can mean a limb)
'charming about' is the wordplay.
'about' says the answer is hidden in the clue (the clue goes around or about the answer).
'ARM' can be found hidden inside 'charming'.
(Other definitions for arm that I've seen before include "inlet" , "Part of chair" , "Prime" , "Authority" , "ready for war" .)