Exploit male pole dancing? Yes! (6)
I believe the answer is:
employ
'exploit' is the definition.
(thesaurus)
'male pole dancing? yes' is the wordplay.
'male' becomes 'm' (common abbreviation).
'dancing?' is an anagram indicator.
'yes' becomes 'y'.
'm'+'pole'='mpole'
'mpole' is an anagram of 'emplo'.
'emplo'+'y'='EMPLOY'
(Other definitions for employ that I've seen before include "Take on - recruit" , "Take into service" , "Give paid work to" , "Make use of" , "Draw on" .)