Extrovert son's expenditure (9)
I believe the answer is:
outgoings
'expenditure' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'extrovert son's' is the wordplay.
'extrovert' becomes 'outgoing' (I've seen this before).
'outgoing'+'s'='OUTGOINGS'
(Other definitions for outgoings that I've seen before include "expeditions" , "Regular expenditure" , "Expenses" .)