Falling apart after row, her woes compounded (3,5,3,4)
I believe the answer is:
the worse for wear
'falling apart' is the definition.
I know nothing about this answer so I can't tell whether this works.
'after row her woes compounded' is the wordplay.
'compounded' indicates an anagram.
'after'+'row'+'her'+'woes'='afterrowherwoes'
'afterrowherwoes' with letters rearranged gives 'THE WORSE FOR WEAR'.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for the worse for wear that I've seen before include "Tired and emotional" , "Shabby; drunk" , "Drunk (colloq.)" .)