Former lover, large specimen (7)
I believe the answer is:
example
'specimen' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'former lover large' is the wordplay.
'former lover' becomes 'ex'.
'large' becomes 'ample' (similar in meaning).
'ex'+'ample'='EXAMPLE'
(Other definitions for example that I've seen before include "Precedent" , "Typical specimen" , "Thing illustrating a general rule" , "Model - instance" , "lesson" .)