Got together with me and the head (3)
I believe the answer is:
met
'got together with' is the definition.
(I've seen this in another clue)
'me and the head' is the wordplay.
'and' is a charade indicator (letters next to each other).
'head' suggests taking the first letters.
The first letter of 'the' is 't'.
'me'+'t'='MET'
(Other definitions for met that I've seen before include "gathered together" , "Made a connection" , "Opera company" , "Came together, encountered" , "satisfied" .)