Items for discussion with a said male or female (6)
I believe the answer is:
agenda
'items for discussion' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'with a said male or female' is the wordplay.
'with' means one lot of letters go next to another.
'said' indicates a 'sounds like' (homophone) clue.
'male or female' becomes 'gender' (I've seen this before).
'gender' sounds like 'genda'.
'a' next to 'genda' is 'AGENDA'.
(Other definitions for agenda that I've seen before include "Schedule of items for meeting" , "Item list for meeting" , "Menu" , "Meeting's topics" , "Matters to be addressed" .)