Joined by the sailor - or the parson (7)
I believe the answer is:
spliced
'joined' is the definition.
(splicing is a kind of joining)
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for spliced that I've seen before include "get married" , "Wed" , "Joined two ends of rope together by weaving" , "Like a cricket bat" , "in a match" .)