Loving having a room, for a change, to ourselves (7)
I believe the answer is:
amorous
'loving' is the definition.
(similar in meaning)
'a room for a change to ourselves' is the wordplay.
'for a change' indicates an anagram.
'to ourselves' becomes 'us'.
'room' anagrammed gives 'moro'.
'a'+'moro'+'us'='AMOROUS'
'having' is the link.
(Other definitions for amorous that I've seen before include "Expressing love" , "Feeling desire" , "Showing or feeling loving feeling" , "Fond" , "characterising a romantic sort" .)