Prim and a little proper with the rather discourteous (7)
I believe the answer is:
prudish
'prim' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for prudish that I've seen before include "Prissy" , "not liking anything too hot!" , "Excessively prim" , "Having extreme propriety, easily shocked by sexual matters" , "Having exaggerated propriety, easily shocked" .)