Promise to go with you to the grave, perhaps (9)
I believe the answer is:
undertake
'promise' is the definition.
(I know that undertake is a type of promise)
I don't understand the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for undertake that I've seen before include "Attempt to perform" , "Guarantee" , "what indisciplined motorway driver might do?" , "Accept - promise" , "Try" .)