Set off, forgetting meeting in school (4)
I believe the answer is:
eton
'school' is the definition.
(famous UK public school)
I don't understand the remainder of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for eton that I've seen before include "Posh college" , "Famous college" , "Town opposite Windsor on the Thames" , "School near Slough" , "School; jacket type" .)