She and men get involved and become engaged (6)
I believe the answer is:
enmesh
'and become engaged' is the definition.
I can't tell whether this definition defines the answer.
'she and men get involved' is the wordplay.
'and' says to put letters next to each other.
'get involved' indicates anagramming the letters.
'she'+'men'='shemen'
'shemen' anagrammed gives 'ENMESH'.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for enmesh that I've seen before include "Involve, as in a net" , "Tangle up in a net" , "Never growing old" , "Catch in toils" , "Make tangled or snarled" .)