The ladies bring a good deal of woe to them (3)
I believe the answer is:
men
'the ladies' is the definition.
The definition and answer can be both people as well as being plural nouns.
Maybe you can see a link between them that I can't see?
I don't understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for men that I've seen before include "Soldiers" , "'So many ..., so many opinions'" , "Male humans" , "Males of Armenian extraction." , "gents" .)