To excite womenkind, learn to cuddle (8)

I believe the answer is:

enkindle

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'to excite' is the definition.
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'womenkind learn to cuddle' is the wordplay.
'ENKINDLE' is hidden in amongst the letters.
But, I am uncertain how the hidden word is indicated.

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(Other definitions for enkindle that I've seen before include "Get aroused" , "Inflame" , "Rouse" .)

I've seen this clue in The Independent.

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